A Right Relationship with God

By David Cunningham

 

A story is told of an accountant who answered an advertisement for a top job with a large firm.  At the end of the interview, the chairman asked, “One last question—what is three times seven?”  The accountant thought for a moment and replied, “Twenty-two.”

 

After the interview and on his way home, the accountant checked himself on his calculator and figured because he gave the wrong answer that he had lost the job. But two weeks later he got a call and was offered the job. He asked the chairman why he had been appointed when he had given the wrong answer.  “You were the closest one to the right answer” the chairman replied.

 

The harsh reality of life is that there are so many people that think that God is like the man who conducted the interview. They think it doesn’t really matter what you believe as long as you’re close to the truth.

 

Our society cringes when we proclaim that the Bible is true, and that we can know absolute truth. We live in a postmodern culture where the prevailing wisdom is that there is no absolute truth at all.  And if there is no absolute truth, there is no absolute way to live. So the postmodernist reasons that he can live anyway that he wants as long as he doesn’t hurt someone else in the process.  But the Bible not only claims to be true, it claims to be the source for everything we need to live life (2 Peter 1:3; 2 Timothy 3:16).

 

Postmodernism teaches “inclusivism”, which means that everyone’s opinion of truth is equally valid.  The following quote attributed to President George W. Bush in an October 4, 2007 interview with Dubai based Al Arabiya is a good example of postmodern inclusivism.

 

“Well, first of all, I believe in an Almighty God, and I believe that all the world, whether they be Muslim, Christian, or any other religion, prays to the same God. That's what I believe. I believe that Islam is a great religion that preaches peace.”

 

Just because President Bush believes that does it make true?  No.  What is his source of authority? His own belief!  In a nutshell, that is the problem in our world today, people have rationalized that their beliefs are valid and true—even if they do not come from an authoritative source. 

 

While postmodernism teaches “inclusivism”, the Bible teaches “exclusivism” and tells us that there is only one authoritative source of truth (the Bible) and that there is only one way to heaven.  In John 14:6, Jesus said, “I am the way the truth and the life, no one comes to the Father but through me.”  No one can come to the Father except through the person of Jesus Christ.

           

Do the Muslims worship the God of the Bible? No.  Do the Jehovah Witnesses worship the God of the Bible?  No.  Do the Mormons worship the God of the Bible?  No. Each of these “religions” deny the deity of Jesus Christ and have put together a set of rules to try to reach heaven. The problem for them is that they are not only sorely misguided but God is not impressed. The Bible paints a very bleak picture for those who try to manufacture their own way to heaven—even calling man’s best attempts to gain favor with God as “filthy rags” (Isaiah 64:6).

           

The Bible teaches that for you to have a right relationship with God there are at least FOUR THINGS that are essential: 

1.  FIRST—YOU NEED TO KNOW WHO YOU ARE (Do you understand that you are a totally depraved sinner and therefore totally incapable of reaching God on your own?

You might have heard someone say before, “You’ve got to get a person lost before you can get them saved.” Well that is partially true—a person must recognize their sinful condition before a holy God and their total inability to save themselves from the due penalty of their sin.

 

The part of that statement that is a little concerning though is the inference that you or I might have something to do with getting someone saved.  While you or I may be the agent that God uses to give out the truth of the gospel, the Bible is very clear that no one can be persuaded to believe the gospel unless God first opens his or her eyes. John 6:44 says (Jesus speaking), “No one can come to Me unless the Father who sent Me draws Him…” God is the initiator of salvation.

Why is that? Because Ephesians 2:1 says that “…you and I were (born) dead in our trespasses and sins.”  And because we were born dead in our trespasses and sins, we do not have the desire nor the capacity to seek God, according to Romans 3:10-11. 

The Bible is clear that it is our sinful condition that stands in the way of having a right relationship with God.  Romans 3:23 says, “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.”  There is a huge chasm between man and God because of man’s sin.  Romans 6:23 says, “For the wages of sin is death…”.  What man deserves for his sinfulness is eternal separation from God—eternal death.

So the first thing that you need to know before you can be saved is that you are a sinner in need of a savior—one who has offended a holy and righteous God and your sinful condition is something that you personally cannot remedy.

 

2.  SECOND—YOU NEED TO KNOW WHO JESUS IS (Do you believe that Jesus Christ is the holy Son of God, the risen Savior and Lord, and the only one who can provide salvation from your sin and its penalty?)

 

Of course, it is not enough to simply know that you are a sinner in need of a Savior—if you don’t know who the Savior is. The Bible proclaims that Jesus Christ in the only one who can provide the way of salvation from ones sins and their penalty. Who is Jesus?

 

Jesus is God—Jesus Himself said in John 10:30, “I and the Father are one.”  John 1:1 says, “In the beginning was the Word and the Word was with God and the Word was God.”  Titus 2:13 says, “Looking for that blessed hope and the appearing of the glory of our great God and Savior, Christ Jesus”.

 

Jesus is Holy—Isaiah 6:3 tells us that Jesus is perfectly holy, and therefore cannot commit or approve of evil (James 1:13).  Colossians 2:9 says, “In Him (Jesus) all the fullness of deity dwells in bodily form.”  Because Jesus is holy, He requires holiness of us as well.  I Peter 1:16 says, “You shall be holy, for I am holy.”

 

Jesus is the Risen Savior—Acts 4:12 says, “There is salvation in no one else; for there is no other name under heaven that has been given among men, by which we must be saved.” I Corinthians 15:3-4 says, “…Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, and that He was buried, and that He was raised on the third day according to the Scriptures.”

 

Jesus is the Creator—According to John 1:3 & Colossians 1:16, Jesus Himself created all things. Psalm 103:19 tells us that He owns everything and rules everything. Because He is the creator He has absolute authority over our lives. As His creatures, we owe Him nothing less than total allegiance, obedience and worship.

 

Jesus is Lord—Romans 10:9-10 identifies Jesus Christ as Lord.  As God, He is Lord and Master over every person and everything.  Philippians 2:10-11 says, “…that at the name of Jesus every knee will bow…and that every tongue will confess Jesus Christ is Lord…”

 

Jesus is the Judge—2 Thessalonians 1:7-9 says, “The Lord Jesus shall be revealed from heaven with His mighty angels in flaming fire, dealing out retribution to those who do not know God and to those who do not obey the gospel of our Lord Jesus.  And these will pay the penalty of eternal destruction, away from the presence of the Lord and from the glory of His power.”

 

And so for you to have a right relationship with God, first, you need to know who you are, second, you need to know who Jesus is, and third, you need to know what only Jesus provides.

3.  THIRD—YOU NEED TO KNOW WHAT ONLY JESUS PROVIDES (Do you believe that salvation from sin is found only in the person of Jesus Christ?)

 

Even though God’s justice demands death for sin, his amazing love has provided a Savior, who paid the penalty and died for sinners.  I Peter 3:18 says, “Christ…died for sins once for all, the just for the unjust, in order that He might bring us to God.” Jesus Christ’s death on the cross of Calvary has perfectly satisfied the righteous demands of God’s justice thereby enabling Him to forgive and save those who place their faith in Him (Romans 3:26).

 

John 3:16 says, “For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish, but have eternal life.”  Romans 6:23 says, “For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Jesus Christ our Lord.”  Trusting in Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of one’s sin is the only way to a right relationship with God. 

 

And so you must first know who you are, second, you must know who Jesus is, third, you must know what Jesus provides and fourth, you must know how that applies to you.

4.  FOURTH—YOU NEED TO KNOW HOW THAT APPLIES TO YOU (Have you repented of your sin and believed in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior?)

 

Ephesians 2:8-9 says, “For by grace you are saved through faith and that not of yourselves it is the gift of God, not as a result of works, lest any man should boast.”  It is impossible to gain salvation through performing certain works   or good deeds.  We could never be good enough to reach God’s standard of perfection—therefore we need grace. Grace is God giving man something he does not deserve.  We receive His grace through placing our faith in who He is and what He has accomplished on our behalf.

 

Romans 10:9 says, “If you confess with your mouth Jesus as Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you shall be saved.”

 

True saving faith is always accompanied by repentance from sin.  Repentance is a change of mind that results in a change of action.  It is agreeing with God that you are a sinner, confessing your sins to Him, and making a conscious choice to turn from your sin and pursue holiness (Acts 26:18, 20).  The true follower of Christ desires with everything that is in him/her to make Jesus the Savior and Lord of his/her life.

 

Paul said in Romans 1:16, “For I am not ashamed of the gospel, for it is the power of God for salvation to every one who believes…”.  The truth is, “the power” that Paul refers to is in the message of “the gospel” (the good news of salvation by grace alone through faith alone in Jesus Christ alone to the glory of God alone) and not the messenger or the method.  It is the gospel that we are called to proclaim and it is the exclusive gospel that sinful man must embrace and believe to have a right relationship with God.

 

Note:  Some of the content above was taken from the excellent tract, Who Do You Say That I Am? published by Grace to You.